“It is not fair to ask of others what you are unwilling to do yourself.” ~ Eleanor Roosevelt
I once had a teacher express their frustration to me regarding their 1st-grade student not taking responsibility for himself and his actions. I responded with, “You know what? I know a lot of adults who are still struggling with that.”
Hearing expressions such as these are common, as school counselors also provide consultation services for teachers and administrators. We hear many challenges and frustrations while helping to provide meaningful insight to better understand the children in their classrooms. Do we want our children to learn how to take responsibility? Of course. However, knowing that this is a struggle for everyone can help us be more patient, kind, and understanding with our students.
We as educators have to meet kids where they’re at. We can’t put expectations on kids that we as adults are not meeting. We have to model the desired behaviors we want our children and future generations to grow up learning. We can’t expect anything upon them we ourselves are not doing.
We need to live the values we teach. Read more