“Mindfulness practice means that we commit fully in each moment to be present; inviting ourselves to interface with this moment in full awareness, with the intention to embody as best we can an orientation of calmness, mindfulness, and equanimity right here and right now.” ~ John Kabat-Zinn
I love the above quote from John Kabat-Zinn, especially because he uses the word, commit, very intentionally. Commit has a Latin origin, meaning to join, combine; to bring together. The more modern definition of commit is to carry out, pledge, bind, or devote. It also refers to the state or quality of being dedicated to a cause, activity, or undertaking.
Reflecting on how commitment applies to the present moment really shifted the way I thought about being present. Think about joining and binding, bringing you together with the here & now — combining into one totality of experience — that this is all there is and this is where it’s at…where life happens.
I often think how esoteric this may seem due to the mundane and everydayness of life. We tend to not connect with the present moment and miracles happening day-to-day. It’s really not something we think about as days of our lives go by. I believe that many of us live the majority of our lives lost in our thoughts without even realizing it. I go more into depth about this in a previous article, “Why You Should Think About Your Death.”
I believe that we all have different degrees of FoMO (Fear of Missing Out) when it comes to staying in the present moment. FoMO is usually associated with social media, but I think it really maps onto the present moment as well. We all tend to get pulled into the past or future, perhaps being afraid we might forget something we’ll have to do later. This constant thinking about what we will do later disconnects us with right now. Sometimes the present moment is unpleasant or uncomfortable, and it becomes even more difficult to stay there. The end result is not being fully present in the here and now.
That should be the real FoMO. Read more